cmewiththemhandz@guerlinaughty

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Comfort Fragrances! Which are yours and why?

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What do you think of as a comfort fragrance— what qualities does it have?

I know what I think, I’m curious what types and categories you think live in the “comfort” zone.

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  1. roofshadow

    Vanilla tends to evoke that comfort feeling for me, I find. I’m not sure why.

    1. cmewiththemhandz@guerlinaughty

      Same! It is supposedly released by babies heads when they are infants !

    2. roofshadow

      Replying to @guerlinaughty

      Interesting!

  2. ENari@e_nar_smells_good

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    Maybe not so conventional but I find something comforting about Molinard - Oud Magnetique. There is something “human” about it, like a gorgeous person using good hair products. Also Tolu by Ormonde Jayne. Something about that orange blossom and juniper combined with that warm, ambery tolu balsam. I find a lot of creamy, musky scents to be comforting - Poudreé by Narciso Rodriguez, and Piano Santal by L’Orchestre Parfum. It also has that “human” quality, with a milky, creamy sandalwood. Entirely different reason but Utopia by Tumi - salted tonka and vanilla with some apple and peony in the opening. It reminds me of something I loved in the early 2000s, I get a positive, nostalgic feeling from it.

    1. cmewiththemhandz@guerlinaughty

      Omg we are of the same mind, I basically feel like if you can associate a smell with a safe place or person it is a comfort fragrance!

    2. ENari@e_nar_smells_good

      Replying to @guerlinaughty

      Totally agree! I didn’t include these but honorable mention to Love’s Baby Soft and Gap Heaven - that’s how my mom smelled in the 90s!

    3. cmewiththemhandz@guerlinaughty

      Replying to @e_nar_smells_good

      Loves baby soft is one I need to smell because it’s legendary! I cannot believe I haven’t yet….

  3. Leslie Jo@lesliejo

    I’m finding my new favs, Musks, are very comforting to me! I feel like I’m wrapped in a soft cocoon.

    1. cmewiththemhandz@guerlinaughty

      I looooove a rich musk like Khiels Musk. I don’t use it for anything except layering or feeling cozy at home!!!

  4. M.R. Powell@m.r.powell

    My comfort fragrances are usually older, nostalgic ones that I have worn over the decades. Fragrances that my older relatives who have passed on also bring me much comfort. Some of my comfort fragrances include Old Spice, Polo, Givenchy Gentleman (1974), and Amouage Gold Man

    1. cmewiththemhandz@guerlinaughty

      Amouage Gold Man is a killer fragrance and alongside Polo. No one I knew wore them but they are comforting. There’s the kind of Animalic from Gold and then the stereotypical dad smell from Polo? My dad used their shaving cream— old spice I think is a generational comfort fragrance :)

  5. Brian@goldtooth

    Ambers do it for me, too. Shalimar came to mind first for me. It’s like a hug from an old friend and specifically reminds me of an ex’s mother who I absolutely love. She turned me on to Shalimar and it’s been with me ever since. I wore Ambre Sultan the other day and that did it for me too.

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    1. cmewiththemhandz@guerlinaughty

      Those two fragrances are the most influential ambers in my life. Ambre Sultan I gifted to my sister and Shalimar my mother. I wear them both but I feel connected with those.

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    2. Kate@katiesko

      Those are two of my favorite perfumes. They don’t evoke comfort, but rather make me feel powerful & confident ♥️

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    3. cmewiththemhandz@guerlinaughty

      Replying to @katiesko

      Oooo I love the crossover! Makes sense to me :3

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  6. Kate@katiesko

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    Comfort fragrances for me are ones that remind me of my mother! She never wore perfume, but I love Guerlain Apres l’Ondee because it smells the dusting powder she would use. It was her signature scent. 😌 I also find lipstick notes to be comforting for the same reason. I’d sneak into her vanity and liberally apply whatever felt right that day. FM Lipstick Rose is pristine for me! 🥀

    1. cmewiththemhandz@guerlinaughty

      Oh what a lovely choice! Apres l’Ondee is such a gift in being the most comforting but cool powdery dessert-like delight. I always love finding fragrances that evoke the smell of my family members so I force them as best I can to wear a fragrance so it becomes locked in with them :p

  7. Will@chippercheme

    Comfort frags: #1 Zoologist Squid #2 Heely Sel Marin #3 Argos Triumph of Bacchus #4 Creed Green Irish Tweed #5 Debaser

  8. StealthECat@stealthecat

    Shalimar Eau de Parfum and L'Air du Temps are scents my mom wore (more recently I got her Jo Malone stuff). Soft from Poesie is a comfort scent to me (i prefer starchy or grains at night as opposed to sweet).

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    1. StealthECat@stealthecat

      I would also say that sometimes I will wear a scent outside of my comfort zone, because I like to challenge my nose with complex or strange scents.

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    2. cmewiththemhandz@guerlinaughty

      Replying to @stealthecat

      Yes! I love a scent to study as well as several to comfort me at night. You gotta love the art but also smell the art that loves you 🫂

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  9. Kelnag@kelnag

    Green tea bamboo, endless euphoria, j'adore. Fresh, a punch of notes and just beautiful

  10. Elle@elle_woods

    Parade by Celine because it reminds me of my GF and the vanilla body mist from The Body Shop circa 2004 since it reminds me of my younger days in a positive way.

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    1. cmewiththemhandz@guerlinaughty

      Right??? I love the scents that remind me of a younger me— innocent and bold!

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  11. Ivana@ivana

    Vanilla (not overly sweet, more on the spicy side) and woody notes lately (sandalwood especially).

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    1. cmewiththemhandz@guerlinaughty

      Sandalwood has always been in the fragrances I love— I only recently realized much how it contributes to a formula compared to other woody notes. The multidimensionality of it is really incredible :))

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  12. Megan Melancholy@meganmelancholy

    D&G The One is my big comfort scent. No one in my family wore perfume so nothing pulls me back like that. Most of what I wear to bed are fresh clean scents or my absolute favorite Milk Thistle & Lavender makes me feel like a snuggled baby... Also I love your little friends and personally thought the lighting was great for talking about cozy bedtime scents

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    1. cmewiththemhandz@guerlinaughty

      Omg a snuggled baby 😭 thank you! My friends came straight from the Ukraine. And thank you, I thought it had potential but it was so hard positioning a lazy Suzan on my bed I got tired and just needed to do the thing LOL

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  13. Davideh@dodo_rising

    How is it possible that WhatScent is the first place you've made content??? You're SO good at this and it feels so natural. I figured you'd been doing this for years. Don't ever stop. I don't think I'll enjoy my morning coffee again if I'm not watching one of your vids. You're amazing. We love you. The end.

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    1. Frank Intense@frankintense

      Yep!

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    2. cmewiththemhandz@guerlinaughty

      Thank you so much 🥹 this has been boot camp for content making !!!! I am not stopping at all, in fact— quite the opposite!

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    3. cmewiththemhandz@guerlinaughty

      Replying to @frankintense

      Thank you, I appreciate you two so much 💛💛💛

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  14. Frank Intense@frankintense

    BDK Gris Charnel is a comforting warm hug to me. It’s bigger than the tea/fig/wood. This will sound crazy: it gives me hope.

    1. cmewiththemhandz@guerlinaughty

      That’s an incredible emotion to be able to snatch out of the air!!! What a strength!

  15. Curlyhen@curlyhen

    I think there’s a differentiation of ‘cozy’ and ‘comforting’ for me? Cozy are probably my bedtime scents mainly made of vanillas. The conforting scents are definitely the ones that transport me to good memories; L'Air du Temps (that reminds me of my friends mum, she was an amazing perfume), some of my mum’s past perfumes but not because they remind me of her, more that they transport me to my childhood like LouLou and Poême. Ex'cla-ma'tion, Ananya and White Musk…..

    1. Curlyhen@curlyhen

      ..cont… There are some perfumes I like smelling, not that they bring me comfort but that they bring me back to shit times in my life, it’s an odd feeling but it’s like it triggers the emotions trauma and anxiety but makes me so thankful and happy for my life now and the people I have in my life. Perfumes that do this are Classique, Eternity and Organza. Funny that you mention Cool Water .. I associate that with my first kiss and a sexual awakening in the suppressed catholic teen that I was.. it still makes me weak at the knees lol…

    2. Curlyhen@curlyhen

      Replying to @curlyhen

      … but my absolute sniffter of comfort is Charlie Red. My first ‘proper perfume’ that was a Christmas gift and it reminds me so much of my daddy. He was amazing and loved Christmas. I still wear this every night on Christmas Eve and it feels like a great big, giant hug from my daddy.

    3. cmewiththemhandz@guerlinaughty

      Mmmmmm I see what you mean with cozy versus comforting. Cozy is a warm fuzzies whereas comfort is a secure seaweed body wrap!!!

  16. Subversivepink@subversivepink

    I don't have a comfort fragrance but I DO have a couple fragrances that cause discomfort when I encounter them. One example: Opium. My Wicked Stepmonster bathed in it.

    1. cmewiththemhandz@guerlinaughty

      Oh noooooo that is a wicked stepmom fragrance (which I love; also a sweet auntie fragrance who is bold and brash and drunk lol)

  17. Eduardo@soldierrboy

    So very well put by @curlyhen as I do categorize them differently as well. My cozy scents are the ones I’d wear to bed (Harvest Mouse, Shalimar L'Essence, Eau des Baux) meanwhile comfort ones for me are scents that have good memories (Tonka Sarrapia Extrait 75 is my number one as I used it for my bday/christmas, or the Iris extrait as my mom and I share it a lot), but also scents that I feel like wearing out and they make me feel like I’m wrapped in something warm? Idk if that makes sense 😭 anyway, something like Shalimar L'Essence would fall in both categories as I wear it out a lot

    1. cmewiththemhandz@guerlinaughty

      Iris is such a fire bedtime smell. Tuberose, indolic florals, iris….mimosa..

    2. Eduardo@soldierrboy

      Replying to @guerlinaughty

      All notes that I love 🥰 yeah mimosa is a big one for me (thinking of L’Eau Papier specifically)

    3. cmewiththemhandz@guerlinaughty

      Replying to @soldierrboy

      Awwe

  18. cmewiththemhandz@guerlinaughty

    Awww

  19. _Aiko_@aikojewel

    My comfort frag is currently L'eau de Parfum layered with Iris Trousseau 🧡 if you're familiar with me, you know I LOVE smelling like a proper snack, and this combo is the buttery, sweet, vintage makeup compact-y snack of my dreams!

    1. cmewiththemhandz@guerlinaughty

      Ooooooo Iris in gourmands is the best (Dior Homme comes to mind as well as Guet-Apens and L’Heure Bleue— the original gourmand!)

  20. _Aiko_@aikojewel

    Xtra comment to say I actually quite enjoy the lighting in this one! I like direct sunlight too, but alternating between sunlight and this is a good move imo🤷🏾‍♀️maybe others disagree lol

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    1. cmewiththemhandz@guerlinaughty

      Thank you! I think I look like an albino egg so I changed to bluer lighting in my current video!!!!

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    2. _Aiko_@aikojewel

      Replying to @guerlinaughty

      "An albino egg" I CAN'T😭

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